Too Early For Rants and Curse..

I was awakened by my neighbor's ranting and cursing.. Too early for such lewd comments and shouts, and too un-motherly to be doing them towards her grade school kiddies.. Well.. Time to get up anyway, so here I am. Lili is still sleeping soundly. I looked at her before rising up and I swear, I could never do the same to her.. Children, no matter how misbehaved they become, do not deserve to be ranted on and cursed. I remember a book that I read, which I forgot the title, that emphasized that if we parents shout ill words upon children, that is exactly how they will grow up to be.. Of course, with psychology and special education background, I know that for a fact too.. On the other hand, the mother should seek help if she warrants it, because for sure she is stressed and burned by her situation that is why she has become so irritable and lacked patience already... Or maybe, she is on the brink of menopausal... ah.. whichever.. I just wanna say that whatever we communicate to our children, it should be communicated with love and respect because they are people too..