Lili and I do not sleep side by side on one bed. In fact, we sleep on two separate beds. Then one day she told me we should buy a big bed just like the bed she sleeps with "Ina" in the yellow house, because she wants me to baby her again while she sleeps, lol... My little girl wants me to baby her again? Hmmm.. I was alarmed at first, but my friends from my Psychology group told me to give her time. They said it is a normal reaction because Lili was independent at a very early age. Since the set up of our bedroom at the orange house is atypical of modern bedrooms, it is by far unhealthy. Hmm.. So far, I have trained Lili to be independent in everything so she wont have to be very needy of mommy... I think I have accomplished that part very well, when I am not around Lili is okay. But when I am around, she is not.. To baby her as she sleeps is a good way, says Joy. But only when she sleeps, so that I can be firm with her "independence training". So, does it mean I need to buy a new bed? Well, we'll see----
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